Tuesday, 3 March 2009

Relatioships.

I mean, what the hell?
Let's ask wiki!...

"Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection[1] and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. The word love is both a verb and a noun. Love is not a single feeling but an emotion built from two or more feelings. Anything vital to us creates more than one feeling, and we also have feelings about our feelings (and thoughts about our feelings)[1]. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love[2] to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love.[3] Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts."

..you catch that?

There are a few kind of relationships, in my opinion.
There's those ones that only last a few days,the pointless fun ones. They're fun for the first couple of days, where it's all "should I hold his hand? is it okay to kiss him goodbye?", loads of fun and butterflies and late night texts. But after those two days, you realise it's not going to last and you dump him. Those are great, in my opinion. You get to meet someone, spend days with them, then realise how much you dislike them.

There are those month+ ones, can last from a couple of months to almost a year. From experience, they're all well and good up untill near the end. It gets messy and ugly and there are fall outs. I'm not a big fan of those ones.

Some people manage to last for over a year! I'd love to be able to do that. I'm sure that's a wonderful time for them really, being able to watch someone go through their life must be great. But spending so much time with the same person must make you start to hate them... picking at all their flaws. Maybe that's just me.

My speciality is "seeing" people. It's what I'm good at now, I've had my fair share of practice.

And, does anyone know who was the girl that did the cover of All I Wanna Do? I can't remember her name and it's itching away in my head, I know she had a silly second name though...

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