This morning, the msn homepage has provided me with "30 mistakes women should make before they're 30". The top 30 includes things that I am now happy knowing other people have done to, not just me, such as chatting up a gay guy, dating two guys at once, getting drunk infront of your parents... But there's one that stands out that I doubt I'll do before or after I'm 30.
"Being 'that girl'.
The definition of 'that girl' is very broad, but most people know one. She's generally the person who can be found dancing on the bar, flirting with anything that has two legs and being carried or escorted home at the end of a night out. You get the picture."
I do know many of those girls. I have friends like that. I love my friends, but I hate girls that act like that. I will never be That Girl. That Girl that uses her assets and the fact that she's a woman to manipulate people. Don't get me wrong, if you've got it; flaunt it, but leading men on and using them to get you drinks or whatever it is you girls do... that's not right.
Isn't that what those girls do? They manipulate men, get absolutely wasted, stagger home or clamber into taxi's, lose all their money or are convinced they did when really you spent it all the night before you stupid idiot! Argh! Why would you want to do that?!
Wouldn't you rather not getting blitzed? Save some money, give the men a little respect, respecting yourself more importantly, just don't give everyone the impression that this is the way you want to spend your life. It's not an atractive look.
Well, maybe it is an atractive look. All of the That Girls that I know never have any trouble bagging themselves a man for the night. I'd rather not just have a guy for the night though, pointless, meaningless. All he wants is a one night stand, no thank you to a man that never wants to see me again, you either get the whole of me or none.
I'll never be That Girl because I don't agree with the morals of That Girl. I don't know how Those Girls do it, I'd never be happy with myself. But, it's just not my scene.
Friday, 20 March 2009
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